登陆注册
4613800000065

第65章 SELF-CONTROL.(11)

(2) "In all cases," says Jeremy Bentham, "when the power of the will can be exercised over the thoughts, let those thoughts be directed towards happiness. Look out for the bright, for the brightest side of things, and keep your face constantly turned to it.... Alarge part of existence is necessarily passed in inaction. By day (to take an instance from the thousand in constant recurrence), when in attendance on others, and time is lost by being kept waiting; by night when sleep is unwilling to close the eyelids, the economy of happiness recommends the occupation of pleasurable thought. In walking abroad, or in resting at home, the mind cannot be vacant; its thoughts may be useful, useless, or pernicious to happiness. Direct them aright; the habit of happy thought will spring up like any other habit."DEONTOLOGY, ii. 105-6.

(3) The following extract from a letter of M. Boyd, Esq., is given by Earl Stanhope in his 'Miscellanies':- "There was a circumstance told me by the late Mr. Christmas, who for many years held an important official situation in the Bank of England. He was, Ibelieve, in early life a clerk in the Treasury, or one of the government offices, and for some time acted for Mr. Pitt as his confidential clerk, or temporary private secretary. Christmas was one of the most obliging men I ever knew; and, from the, position he occupied, was constantly exposed to interruptions, yet I never saw his temper in the least ruffled. One day I found him more than usually engaged, having a mass of accounts to prepare for one of the law-courts--still the same equanimity, and I could not resist the opportunity of asking the old gentleman the secret.

'Well, Mr. Boyd, you shall know it. Mr. Pitt gave it to me:--NOT TO LOSE MY TEMPER, IF POSSIBLE, AT ANY TIME, AND NEVERDURING THE HOURS OF BUSINESS. My labours here (Bank of England)commence at nine and end at three; and, acting on the advice of the illustrious statesman, I NEVER LOSE MY TEMPER DURINGTHOSE HOURS.'"

(4) 'Strafford Papers,' i. 87.

(5) Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 7, 534.

(6) Brialmont's 'Life of Wellington.'

(7) Professor Tyndall, on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' p. 156.

(8) 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 216.

(9) Lady Elizabeth Carew.

(10) Francis Horner, in one of his letters, says: "It is among the very sincere and zealous friends of liberty that you will find the most perfect specimens of wrongheadedness; men of a dissenting, provincial cast of virtue--who (according to one of Sharpe's favourite phrases) WILL drive a wedge the broad end foremost --utter strangers to all moderation in political business."--Francis Horner's LIFE AND CORRESPONDENCE (1843), ii. 133.

(11) Professor Tyndall on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' pp. 40-1.

(12) Yet Burke himself; though capable of giving Barry such excellent advice, was by no means immaculate as regarded his own temper.

When he lay ill at Beaconsfield, Fox, from whom he had become separated by political differences arising out of the French Revolution, went down to see his old friend. But Burke would not grant him an interview; he positively refused to see him. On his return to town, Fox told his friend Coke the result of his journey; and when Coke lamented Burke's obstinacy, Fox only replied, goodnaturedly: "Ah! never mind, Tom; I always find every Irishman has got a piece of potato in his head." Yet Fox, with his usual generosity, when he heard of Burke's impending death, wrote a most kind and cordial letter to Mrs. Burke, expressive of his grief and sympathy; and when Burke was no more, Fox was the first to propose that he should be interred with public honours in Westminster Abbey--which only Burke's own express wish, that he should be buried at Beaconsfield, prevented being carried out.

(13) When Curran, the Irish barrister, visited Burns's cabin in 1810, he found it converted into a public house, and the landlord who showed it was drunk. "There," said he, pointing to a corner on one side of the fire, with a most MALAPROPOS laugh-"there is the very spot where Robert Burns was born." "The genius and the fate of the man," says Curran, "were already heavy on my heart; but the drunken laugh of the landlord gave me such a view of the rock on which he had foundered, that I could not stand it, but burst into tears."(14) The chaplain of Horsemongerlane Gaol, in his annual report to the Surrey justices, thus states the result of his careful study of the causes of dishonesty: "From my experience of predatory crime, founded upon careful study of the character of a great variety of prisoners, I conclude that habitual dishonesty is to be referred neither to ignorance, nor to drunkenness, nor to poverty, nor to overcrowding in towns, nor to temptation from surrounding wealth--nor, indeed, to any one of the many indirect causes to which it is sometimes referred--but mainly TO A DISPOSITION TO ACQUIREPROPERTY WITH A LESS DEGREE OF LABOUR THAN ORDINARY INDUSTRY."The italics are the author's.

(15) S. C. Hall's 'Memories.'

(16) Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. Ed., p. 182.

(17) Captain Basil Hall records the following conversation with Scott:-"It occurs to me," I observed, "that people are apt to make too much fuss about the loss of fortune, which is one of the smallest of the great evils of life, and ought to be among the most tolerable."--"Do you call it a small misfortune to be ruined in money-matters?" he asked. "It is not so painful, at all events, as the loss of friends."--"I grant that," he said. "As the loss of character?"--"True again." "As the loss of health?"--"Ay, there you have me," he muttered to himself, in a tone so melancholy that I wished I had not spoken. "What is the loss of fortune to the loss of peace of mind?" I continued. "In short,"said he, playfully, "you will make it out that there is no harm in a man's being plunged over-head-and-ears in a debt he cannot remove." "Much depends, I think, on how it was incurred, and what efforts are made to redeem it--at least, if the sufferer be a rightminded man." "I hope it does," he said, cheerfully and firmly.--FRAGMENTS OF VOYAGES AND TRAVELS, 3rd series, pp. 308-9.

(18) "These battles," he wrote in his Diary, "have been the death of many a man, I think they will be mine."(19) Scott's Diary, December 17th, 1827.

同类推荐
  • 能断金刚般若波罗蜜多经论释

    能断金刚般若波罗蜜多经论释

    本书为公版书,为不受著作权法限制的作家、艺术家及其它人士发布的作品,供广大读者阅读交流。汇聚授权电子版权。
  • 法句经

    法句经

    本书为公版书,为不受著作权法限制的作家、艺术家及其它人士发布的作品,供广大读者阅读交流。汇聚授权电子版权。
  • 万柳溪边旧话

    万柳溪边旧话

    本书为公版书,为不受著作权法限制的作家、艺术家及其它人士发布的作品,供广大读者阅读交流。汇聚授权电子版权。
  • The Soul of the Far East

    The Soul of the Far East

    本书为公版书,为不受著作权法限制的作家、艺术家及其它人士发布的作品,供广大读者阅读交流。汇聚授权电子版权。
  • 古今医案按

    古今医案按

    本书为公版书,为不受著作权法限制的作家、艺术家及其它人士发布的作品,供广大读者阅读交流。汇聚授权电子版权。
热门推荐
  • 宋词三百首

    宋词三百首

    本书为公版书,为不受著作权法限制的作家、艺术家及其它人士发布的作品,供广大读者阅读交流。汇聚授权电子版权。
  • 爱情看上去很偶然

    爱情看上去很偶然

    一场错位的相亲,导演了一场错位的相爱:陆尘宇替代苏枕与孟小吟相亲,却不可救药地爱上了她,让她心动的却是苏枕;苏枕阴差阳错约会了秦伊诺,秦伊诺对他一见钟情,他却悄悄爱上孟小吟。两对情侣看似平静发展,却暗潮涌动:陆尘宇当着孟小吟的面与性感巧克力女郎放肆地跳着贴面舞;秦伊诺开始用尽手段引诱传媒集团总裁徐昌郡;苏枕和孟小吟深埋心底的真实感情日渐苏醒。
  • 操守

    操守

    一阵风把城市吹乱了。天空中电缆上下弹跳,仿佛随时都要挣脱杆子的束缚,弄出更加惊怵的火花;汽车如抱头鼠窜的人,声声喇叭,拼命扭动着身姿,晃动在街上;男男女女从悠然、急切、散淡等等神情中回过神,蓦然坠入恐慌,那些广告牌、空中标语,还有店面上的招牌,噼里啪啦,好像随时就要砸向某处,或者飞落在某人的头上。一阵风把城市吹乱了。天空中电缆上下弹跳,仿佛随时都要挣脱杆子的束缚,弄出更加惊怵的火花;汽车如抱头鼠窜的人,声声喇叭,拼命扭动着身姿,晃动在街上;男男女女从悠然、急切、散淡等等神情中回过神,蓦然坠入恐慌,那些广告牌、空中标语,还有店面上的招牌,噼里啪啦,好像随时就要砸向某处。
  • 不可不知的美国常识

    不可不知的美国常识

    美国是一个很有个性的国度,不仅是世界上的强国,也常常引领着世界的发展潮流。走进美国、了解美国,可以开阔视野和提高个人的认知,可以让每一位读者在短时间内认识美国。本书从签证移民、教育、留学、旅游、历史、文化等十一个方面,系统地介绍美国。在撰写本书的过程中,作者广泛收集美国的相关知识,然后精心遴选,书中所涉及的一些知识点均具有代表性和实用性。在全球化的今天,读这本书,最大的益处是帮助读者对美国有一个全面的认识,从而使大洋彼岸的国度不再神秘,为那些还未做好前往美国的人们提供及早认识美国的契机,同时为即将前往美国的人们提供更可靠的行动指南。
  • 佛说八吉祥神咒经

    佛说八吉祥神咒经

    本书为公版书,为不受著作权法限制的作家、艺术家及其它人士发布的作品,供广大读者阅读交流。汇聚授权电子版权。
  • 天香引

    天香引

    温亚军,现为北京武警总部某文学杂志主编。著有长篇小说伪生活等六部,小说集硬雪、驮水的日子等七部。获第三届鲁迅文学奖,第十一届庄重文文学奖,《小说选刊》《中国作家》和《上海文学》等刊物奖,入选中国小说学会排行榜。中国作家协会会员。
  • 异界召唤之无上皇朝

    异界召唤之无上皇朝

    “常山赵子龙在此,区区异族,也敢放肆!”神魔坡上,赵子龙身穿银龙甲,手持霸王枪,身后白龙隐现,从虚空踏步而来,大声喝道。“吾吕布在此,谁敢一战!”苍穹之上,吕布头戴紫金冠,身披百花袍,手持方天画戟,背后魔焰滔天,声似雷霆,威震九霄。这里有武圣关二爷,三刀可碎山断岳。有古之恶来典韦,可戬破虚空,诸神灭魔。有谋圣诸葛孔明,可引九天星辰之力,布周天伏魔大阵……这是一个神魔三国的时代,这是一个在异界扬威的故事!新人报道,欢迎入坑。
  • 我欲为天

    我欲为天

    天武大陆,实力为尊,万族林立,等级森严。一个从属国走出的少年,誓要耀眼在苍穹之下,演绎一个令万万人向往的传奇,追求那无上的巅峰之路,怎奈被大门派赶出,连带家族被贬寒门,背负万世骂名。试问武极之巅,谁主沉浮?大千世界,我欲为天。
  • 我和圣女有个约定

    我和圣女有个约定

    十二年前,一个小男孩救了一个小女孩,十二年后小女孩成了武林第一门派的圣女,名动江湖。多少江湖青年俊才想要一睹圣女仙容,可都一一遭到拒绝,圣女只说了一句话,我哥哥不同意。新书,请多多支持。(粉丝群:825503492)
  • 绝色美女的极品保镖

    绝色美女的极品保镖

    他是超级保镖,身怀绝世武功,拥有超强医术,本想平静生活,却遇神奇伯乐……